books

I’ve said for years how much we as a family enjoying reading aloud at night. The boys have been read to for years and years. We introduced them to chapter books very early on and it’s the highlight to their day. A week or two ago we finished Treasure Island, the original version, and although it took quite a few stops and starts to explain some big nautical vocabulary words, the boys loved it.

We are big Gary Paulsen fans in this house and loved Hatchet. Now we are onto Brian’s Winter. It’s an alternate ending to Hatchet and picks up the story as if Brian was never rescued. Super great read, on the edge of your seat events. It’s about a boy’s survival after a crash in the wilderness.

Greta had to get in on the whole chapter book fun. She wasn’t too content listening to Treasure Island, but she has been a fan in the past of My Father’s Dragon(don’t let the 1949 publishing date deter you, great story). I decided to see how long her attention span would be, so we started off with Samantha from the American Girl series. I figured it was education and still historical fiction. She loved it. So next we checked out Ramona the Pest from the library. We are about halfway through and she just loves it. I catch her grinning from ear to ear in some parts. Her brothers often refer to Greta as Ramona so now she gets to find out the reasons why. If I can pass my love of reading down to all three of my kids I will be one of the happiest mamas around.

My girlfriends and I had another book swap recently so my nightstand is chalk full of new books. Cannot. Wait. I am currently reading my last book from the first swap we did. Can you believe in all my years that I never read To Kill a Mockingbird? Loving it. In fact, I found our future son’s name in the book. No, no impending baby news. In fact, there will be no future son, but IF we ever had a son in another lifetime, I have his name picked out thanks to this book. Just wish I had some time to dedicate to reading it. Our lives have been a blur in February. Literally the entire month passed me by. March will be full too I’m afraid. In fact I’m doubting that there will ever be a month where it’s just chill and no stress.

As I type this I am watching the clock for my next client to arrive. So I better sign off now. Have a good evening!

french parenting

I’ve been reading all the buzz about the new book Bringing Up Bebe, about an American woman raising her children in France, and the different parenting methods there compared to the US.

There’s two very good articles that I read on the subject that definitely were interesting. I’m not one to jump on the latest bandwagon or change a method of my parenting because of a recent book I read, but I most definitely like to be informed. Ignorance is something I hate, so when I encounter something I’m not familiar with, I must become familiar with it. This is the reason I spent most of my lunch breaks last week listening to podcasts explaining what happened in Europe to the euro and the reasons for Greece’s bankruptcy. Now I know.

This WSJ article was the first one I read, and I thought it was pretty interesting. Now do I believe everything in it, no. Do I believe there are some French women who are completely devoted to their children and play with their children every single day? Of course. But are there some good, valid, common sense strategies in it? Definitely.

This second article from Huffington Post I thought was really interesting as well. It is another American woman’s take on raising her children in France and it’s not quite as rosy as the first. It brings up some good points about the lack of breastfeeding mothers in France, and the reasons maybe French mothers are not as stressed as their American counterparts. Hello free preschool? Hello monthly payments from government for each child you have? Yeah, that right there would save any mother a whole lot of stress.

Anyway, I thought I would share the articles with you. In the end I think mothers, regardless of the country they reside in, follow their instincts. Usually those instincts are right. But I do wish maybe we mamas weren’t so hard on ourselves in America. I’m constantly thinking about how my actions affect my kids, and the many times I’m a “bad” mom(i.e. lost my temper, raised my voice, made the wrong decision, kept my kid up too late and then had to wake them before school so they were weepy and sad the entire day, must’ve done or eaten or not eaten or not done something when I was pregnant that caused my kid to need glasses, see what I mean?) But if I had to choose, I think striving to be the best mama even if I never think I can ever attain it is something I would choose each and every time versus feeling confident and sure of myself as a mother. I would love to meet a mom one day that thinks they know what they are doing. And if I ever meet her I’d look her in the eyes and I’d call her a liar…

we have a reader….

I put teaching my kids to read in the same category as potty training. It’s something that must be done, but I would like to just skip it and go straight to wearing underwear with no accidents and reading Ramona Quimby fluently. But it takes a lot of work to get to both places. Teaching my last *sniff* child to read is bittersweet. But it’s oh so rewarding. She’s officially a reader….if you’d like to enjoy a few minutes of her reading Green Eggs & Ham, be my guest. Just ignore the fact that she likes to move a whole lot while reading. This girl cracks me up.

last week’s instagrams

Before our trip here’s my Instagrams for the week

1.curly hair 2.no longer for 3 months 3.winter break kids party 4.face painting 5.gunnar’s 10 yr checkup 6.dinner 7.just finished 8.mammoth reading material 9.returned home to find apple’s replacement nano in the mail for our 1st generation recalled one 10.a very bare fridge 11.reuniting with this boy after 5 days.

books books books

We’ve been reading a lot over here as of late. On our nightstands have been…

The Strange Case of Origami Yoda and Darth Paper Strikes Back- the boys have loved these books and have reread them both twice. It has also inspired a whole lot of origami making in this house.

I have been reading a lot, maybe because of the extra time we had in Ojai to relax, I was able to get through a few books. I finished The Giver, which my cousin had recommended for Gunnar, but I decided to read it first because of her raving reviews. Gunnar has read other Lois Lowry books before, like Number the Stars, but neither of us had heard of this one. It was great! I finished it in 2 days and can’t wait for Gunnar to read it next.

Gunnar is currently reading Six Days, but not sure how into he is since he paused reading that to read the Yoda books twice. We’ll see as he gets into it a little more.

I also finished some books from the book swap a few months ago. I read Olive Kitteridge, which was good, but kinda sad and depressing. I’m now reading another book swap book that seems light hearted at the moment, but I’m only 40 pages in, so we’ll see. It’s The Friday Night Knitting Club.

Aaron is reading several books at the same time. Never a good sign to me, and something I can’t comprehend doing. He’s reading The Irregulars, a non fiction about Roald Dahl’s life before Willy Wonka and the BFG. When he was a British spy. And he’s also reading my gift to him last month, Steve Jobs biography.

Hoping everyone is enjoying some books of their own at the moment. I love reading. I don’t know why I spent so many years without a book on my nightstand. Oh yeah, now I remember why. Their names are Gunnar, Sawyer and Greta. :) But alas, we can all read together now which is oh so wonderful to me.

more books

With the evenings getting cooler finally, we are spending less time outside during and after dinner. Which gives us more time to read. I can’t leave the library now without a stack of books between the 3 kids and myself.

I finished Room in a few days, and seriously, unlike anything I have ever read. I highly recommend. I told my pilates instructor about it and she too read it in 2 days and said the same thing. I didn’t read the back, I didn’t read reviews, and I’m so glad because I wanted to discover it as I read. My instructor said she checked it out of the library and had no wait time, so go. Check it out. I borrowed it from our book swap awhile ago.

Gunnar is reading the Maze Runner trilogy. He’s on the second book and we are both waiting for the third and final book to be released this month. We’ll see who gets to read it first, it’ll all depend on where we are on our other novels.

Sawyer is really enjoying this Miss Child series, apparently there are a ton, he’s on his second at the moment. Reading is one of his favorite things to do, but unfortunately homework is no joke this year. Some nights he has more than Gunnar. But he has been such a trooper about it. He even hasn’t complained that I’m having him do the extra credit each night. Well, he’s complained a little. But only, “mama, I know you’re going to make me do the extra credit”. It was kind of like he surrendered before the fight started. He has extra math too because, well, he needs it. When you are good at something what happens is you get more work I guess. So to keep him un-bored he’s gotta be challenged. I’m just happy for him that today is Friday and that means no homework (well, except for his extra credit :) )

Greta discovered this fairy series at the library, and she’s insistent that if the boys get read to aloud, then she should pick her own chapter book and be read to as well. Sadly, they are torturous to read. Aaron and I cannot stand them, but she has been insistent. I skirted around this recently by picking a book that I think all three of them would enjoy listening to. But I made sure not to tell the kids what it was about until we started it. I knew if the boys found out it was about a girl turning into a mermaid when she hit water, it would be a no go. But it’s really suspenseful and well written so after chapter 1 they didn’t want me to stop. So finally all THREE of them are listening to the same book at night time and the fairy series that I really don’t like so much is being held off a little longer.

Any suggestions for books? For me? My kids? I am thinking another book swap will have to be arranged for December. By then we may be all out.

book post

My nightstand has a stack of books so high it makes me smile at the moment. All the kids and myself have been in a reading frenzy the last few weeks and we love it. Back to school kind of does that to us, along with the fact that our new routine is kids in bed at 7pm, lights out at 7:30pm. It gives them a full half hour of quiet reading time.

Sawyer has been reading the A-Z Mystery books, one a day. So I check out 7-10 at the library and that only lasts us about a week. He also discovered the Calendar Mystery books. They are both a little young for his reading skill if you ask me, but he just loves to complete a whole book in an afternoon or evening. So I don’t complain. Reading is reading.

Gunnar finished the Hunger Games trilogy, in about a week. I have to say it was a bit odd to have my kid read books that I love. But it was pretty fun to discuss and now we talk about the movie and who they casted and our thoughts on it. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend them for a normal 4th grader, but Gunnar is such a sophisticated reader that I allowed it. Well, I allowed it after he snuck The Hunger Games to school and started it before asking me. I was going to let him read it when he turns 10 this winter, but it didn’t happen.

Greta is reading better and better these days. In fact at dinner this evening I played tic tac toe with her and all over her menu she had to write “mom lost” “greta wins”. All by herself she is sounding things out and spelling them.

I finished a few weeks ago Cutting for Stone. Excellent book, very powerful. If you are looking for a deeper book, and one that is meaty and has a story that takes place over years, I recommend it. It takes place in Ethiopia and is just a beautiful story that has everything from sadness, to laughter to pain. So be prepared.

A client of mine loaned me NurtureShock, which I cannot put down at the moment (thanks Rachel!). Seriously, so fascinating. If you are a fan of Malcolm Gladwell, or read Outliers, or enjoy books like that which take a methodology or idea that is prevalent and then picks it apart and dissects it and then blows your mind with the reality of it, this is your book. And I love that it touches on all different subjects, but always having to do with children. So if you’re a parent, read this book. I was especially fascinated with the chapter on obesity and sleep and IQs. Everyone who knows me, knows that I am a stickler when it comes to my kids bedtimes. Even on the weekends, even during summer. And this gave me a little bit of justification as to why I shouldn’t let that slide. Yay for early bedtimes.

If you have any recommendations please leave me a comment with what they are. I’ll let you know that my nightstand at the moment consists of Room, To Kill a Mockingbird, and 2 others that I just cannot remember but are also from our book swap. I cannot wait to devour them!

Happy reading.

book post

I haven’t done a reading post in awhile. It’s not that I haven’t been reading, it’s just that the writing posts of the blog and the linking part takes me more time . But I am sitting here waiting for a guy from Craigslist to come pick up our Sparkletts water bottle dispenser and stand. So I have time cause he’s late! Yay for time. Never have enough of that right now.

I just finished the book, The Education of Little Tree, not too sure where I’ve been all these years since it’s been around for decades. But it was wonderful, one of those classics that really everyone should read. I’m onto a Malcolm Gladwell book, I could read his books for days.

Sawyer is all crazy obsessed with reading and rereading the Big Nate series. Not the Nate the Great, but a different series. Last week we went to Barnes and Noble and you know how my mom really likes “sets” well, I told her oh look Big Nate has a new book out we haven’t read yet. So she then buys the whole set. :) But he has read one a day ever since, and then when he completes all of them he goes back and starts over again.

While we were at the bookstore I also picked up Maniac Magee from my childhood and decided it was time to read it to the boys. I remember it quite vividly, I was in 6th grade and when we would come in from lunch all sweaty and gross, and tired, Mrs. Wingfield would turn down the lights and we would sit at our cool desks and she would read to us. It would be dead silence while she read, we all loved that book and looked forward to that part of the day so much. Well now the boys know that the quicker they bathe, brush teeth, and put on their jammies, the quicker it is for reading time. So they rush to get it all done so that there’s a good 20-30 minute chunk of time where I can read to them. I thought about how maybe Sawyer is too young being in first grade, and I was read it in 6th. But that boy has the reading level of a 6th grader so vocabulary is not an issue. And he reads books that I don’t think I ever read! They are LOVING it. When I finish a few chapters and say lights out, they squeal and yell “please just one more chapter, just one!”

Gunnar is working on a mystery book report that is due on Monday. He chose to do it on this Hardy Boys book, man does he love Frank and Joe Hardy.

So that’s what we’ve been reading over in this house. If you have any good book recommendations, I am all ears! I love it when a book is recommended to me because 9 times out of 10 I end up loving it.

Oh and the craigslist guy came and took the dispenser/stand, and I’m still alive. ;)

The Omnivore’s Dilemma

I’ve been reading this book for a few weeks and after a slow start because of our trip to Mammoth and crazy work days, finally I have had the time to really devour it. Part of me doesn’t want to share any of the info because I’d like for each and every one of you to read it yourself. But then the other part of me is brimming at the top to talk talk talk. And the last part of me, yes, I have 3 parts. The last part of me is afraid you won’t read the book, so then I have no choice but to highlight parts for you. This book rec was from my friend Freya and I have to say, quite compelling. Quite sad and depressing too. I asked her what she did when she finished the book and she replied jokingly, “curled up in a ball and cried.” I kind of get that now.

I am not nearly done, not even half way. But just finished the first part. Wow. There is so much that I had no idea about. I feel so ignorant. But I feel better knowing that I am educating myself little by little. I feel confident that when the need comes, I may be able to figure out how to actually feed my family the way it was intended. That’s right, I honestly look forward to the day when we have no supermarkets and our land, farm and ranch is what we depend on for food.

Just a few lightbulb moments for me that I will try to briefly touch on:

There is a whole section on just corn. Because you know corn is king. Sorry for all you midwesterners as I bash that to pieces. But it’s killing us. I had no idea that it costs MORE money to grow corn than what it is sold for. You would think that if something is more expensive to make than sell, well, you’d stop making it right? Nope. I won’t go into why they continue to produce it, because you’ll have to read that for yourself. Corn and soybeans are the only foods grown in the farm states of middle America. One of the reasons has to do with fertilizer. I had no idea the background of chemical fertilizers. All I knew is that we didn’t want chemical fertilizers helping out my grass and my little backyard garden. But I had no idea why. Well I learned that after World War II the military had a ridiculous amount of leftover ammonium nitrate they had to get rid of. What could be done with this poison? It was figured out that it can infuse nitrogen into the soil, thus fertilizing it like livestock used to do. So in the 50s chemical fertilizers arrived and then there was no need for livestock on the farms. So no more animals. So you had no choice but to use chemical fertilizers because you had no more animals to fertilize the soil. Makes sense.

Unfortunately I also had no idea how dangerous for all those cities surrounding these states like Iowa. There are actually months every year that warnings go out where they inform everyone not to drink from the tap. Because all that chemical fertilizer comes down the Mississippi and run offs and into the soil and wells and ends up polluting their drinking water. So sad. Where does it go after the Mississippi River? The Gulf of Mexico where an 8,000 square mile floating zone of runoff resides, where nothing can live in this zone but algae. Again, so sad.

I always grew up knowing due to our faith that we are destroying the earth. But to this extent, wow. Back to corn. America produces too much of it, so they had to find uses for this mountainous pile of corn. Thus came all the corn varieties, processed foods, ethanol, high fructose corn syrup, there’s literally hundreds of ingredients derived from corn because there just is too much of it. And we can only consume so much right?

Enough corn talk. The last thing that was a light bulb moment for me last night was when I read about cows. As I sat there explaining it to Aaron he looked at me like, where have YOU been? I guess I just never connected the dots. You know we all, well, not all of us, but a lot of us try to eat meat without antibiotics and hormones? Right, the whole puss in the milk story remember? Well, that’s not the only reason. On feedlots, usually in Kansas and surrounding areas, their job is to fatten cattle for slaughtering. A hundred years ago it used to take 4-5 years to get an animal fattened up to slaughter, 50 years ago it took 2-3 years. Now, it can be done in 14-16 months. How in the world?! They feed them a diet that they weren’t created to eat. Corn. Okay, maybe I’m back to corn a little bit. Corn is a very good food to fatten animals up quickly. And about 14-16 months is really all they can stand of this diet before it kills them. The book has a ton of info as to why they can’t eat corn and what it does to them, but you’ll have to read that. The thing about feeding cows corn is that it gives their meat marbling. Marbling is what people look for in their meat, we’ve actually become accustomed to the taste and like the way marbling tastes. Well, here’s the light bulb moment for me. If you feed a cow a food that causes them to become obese quite quickly, and then we consume that meat, guess what? Yeah, see! The light bulb.

I said that was the last thing, but there’s one more. It just makes such perfect sense to me now. I have to share. You know sometimes we get sick and an antibiotic doesn’t always work well? Sometimes you have to be given a second, or a third even? Well, if you are consuming meat that is not antibiotic free that means that a healthy cow is given antibiotics automatically with his feed every single day. They have to do this because the feed gets cows so sick because they weren’t made to eat anything but grass. Well healthy cows eat the antibiotics, sometimes they still get sick anyways, but either way you now are consuming that meat with the antibiotics, and guess what, those antibiotics that you take the next time, they just don’t work as well anymore because you’ve already consumed them in your healthy body when you’ve eaten your meat. Ding ding ding! Light bulb.

It’s all connected. It all matters to our health, our bodies. I have heard so many times that it’s expensive to eat healthy, and it’s true. But come to think about it, if I couldn’t afford meat that wasn’t antibiotic free I don’t think there is anything wrong with not eating meat at all. I didn’t eat red meat for over 12 years, and it wouldn’t be the end of the world if that happened again. But for us right now we can eat meat that is antibiotic free, so it isn’t an issue. Maybe one day it will be an issue and our family will stop eating red meat. I don’t have any moral problems with eating meat, but we’re talking from a financial standpoint. My point is, I don’t think cost should be the reason we are killing ourselves. I am working on a little post about groceries for my family, and what it costs to feed my five. Hoping I can finish it up this weekend.

So there you have some highlights that stood out to me. If you read the book other things may knock you off your feet, but for me, these were them. As I read the book, I may share more information or if I get hate emails, I may not. :) Either way, it’s enlightening to me, and I truly get that man can most definitely not take care of this earth on their own.

book?

Raining here. And I am quite happy and cozy in my sweater laying on the couch reading. BUT, my mom came over to borrow a book and I can’t find it. If I loaned The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls to you can you text me or comment here? I cannot remember for the life of me who has that book at the moment. It’s such a good book, so if you haven’t read it yet, check it out of the library. I’m reading the author’s second novel which kinda is and kinda isn’t a follow up to The Glass Castle, called Half Broke Horses. It’s of her grandmother’s life. SO SO good.

We were quite wimpy this morning since I went to bed convinced it would be pouring when we got up. The sun was actually shining for a few hours and this afternoon is when the rain descended. But we would never have made it out this morning in time so instead Aaron was pretty fired up to do some spring cleaning. We tackled the cabinets above the computer which house a ton of books and random notebooks, and we moved them to a library in the garage if they are books that have already been read by the kids. They will wait there until the next kid is ready for a series. Then he cleared out our art closet and I have a nice bag waiting for Goodwill or a summer garage sale. All the kids art supplies and craft items are nice and organized once again. It seems that closet needs an overhaul every 6 months with how often things are going in and out of it.

I was thrilled Thursday to pick up a stack of books that came in for me at the library. I am devouring Half Broke Horses and Aaron is reading another one and I have a third on my nightstand. I think I can get through all 3 before they are due back at the library. It’s a nice variety of reads so I will let you know how they all are once I’m done. I finished Little Bee last week and cannot recommend it enough. Excellent.

Hope everyone stays dry and warm if you are in Southern California, and if you are in the east and enjoying some sunshine I’m very happy for you. I got a text from Auntie Rachel that it was 60 degrees and the sun was shining yesterday. I replied back that sadly it’s 50 here and raining. But I will take the rain because it puts off a whole lot of gardening work that will need to get done in the coming weeks. If the boys stay well this weekend then they are planning to go snowboarding on Monday at Mt Baldy since they got 2 feet of snow in the last day.

Happy long weekending everyone!